LESSON 6
CHANGE
lNTRODUCTION: Bottom Line:
Life is full of change. This is never truer than during the teen years. This season of constant new beginnings can lead to a lot of stress and worry.
God knows what we need. If He cares so much about something small like a flower or a bird, what do you think that says about how much He wants to take care of you?
Bible:
Matthew 6:31-33 31
"Therefore do not worry, saying, 'What shall we oat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?'
32 "For after all these things the Gentiles sook. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things.
33 "But sook first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
OPENING GAME - Pass the peanut
SUPPLIES ·Enough plastic spoons for everyone Split your entire group into equal teams and have each team to stand in a line. Each person should have a plastic spoon. The first person in each line will start with a peanut on their spoon. If the peanut falls, you must start all over again. The first team to get the peanut to the end of the line, wins! Game Tie-in Having to start over can be stressful. Though in this game, starting over came after a mistake, it often is just a part of life. Starting over comes with the many changes in life that come our way. |
TEACH Life is filled with change. No one understands that more than a teenager. Think about it. Grades change every year which means new teachers, new classmates. When you get to middle school and high school, you change your entire learning routine by having multiple teachers that teach different subjects. There are the changes with friends. The friends that were your closest in say 2nd grade are most likely not the same by the time you are a sophomore in high school. How can we learn to navigate this constantly changing world? What are some ways that we can start our "new beginnings" on a good fit. Let’s look at a few keys from the Bible. Don't Worry Ever heard the saying, "Don't worry, be happy”? I’m not a fan. When something is looming on the horizon-maybe it's a change you know is coming that you are dreading-isn't it hard to do anything but worry? As hard as it is to fathom, one of the keys to starting a new beginning on the right foot is to surrender your worry to God. In Matthew 6:25, Jesus paints an amazing picture of the freedom from worrying we can find in Him. "That is why I tell you not to worry about everyday life-whether you have enough food and drink, or enough clothes to wear. Isn't life more than food, and your body more than clothing?” We are going to look at a few verses from this passage, but it's good to start here. There are two interesting things to point out. Whenever we start a new beginning, we want to know that we are going to be okay,that whatever changes may come, we will survive it. Jesus knows that feeling. Though this verse may not specifically mention high school or college, it does identify some of the most basic ingredients to a good life that people have been worrying about for centuries. Second, Jesus goes on to ask a critical question: "Isn't life more than food, and your body more than clothing?" In other words, there's more to life than just these things we need for survival and protection/status. Before we dive any further, I want to join with Jesus and say that, no matter what you may feel at the moment, there is more to life than school, social groups, and your teen years. In the next verse, Jesus gives the example of birds. God provides for them. What Jesus is saying is that if God will take care of birds, how much more will He take care of you? New beginnings are a part of life. Worry doesn't have to be. Read Matthew 6:31-32. The Solution So far, we have looked at some compelling words from Jesus. He tells us that worrying is pointless. God has you covered. But how do you truly defeat worry?
Read Matthew 6:33. "Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need."
Or maybe, it is better to say that the answer to joy in life is right there. When you worry about a new beginning, many of the things that are stressing you out are wants. What do you need? Pursue God and He will make that happen. |
SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION QUESTIONS 1. What are some of the "new beginnings" that you have faced or will face soon in your life? 2. What makes new beginnings scary? 3. What does it mean to seek the Kingdom of God above all else? 4. What are your true "needs" in life? What are some of your "wants"?
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